Sunday, September 30, 2012

A Difficult Start

I created this blog some time ago and haven't found the right words for the first initial post. Since October is national domestic violence awareness month, I feel now is the time to get it started. Shannon lost her life over a year ago, but it is not in vain. The hope for this blog, this emerging campaign, is to spread her story and awareness about domestic violence. Shannon was a strong, caring, loving woman that was caught up in an abusive relationship. This happens all too often.

Many ask what keeps a woman in that position and most of the time it's fear with a little bit of pride. Women will lie about their situations because they are afraid of their partner and embarrassed that they are in this situation. Women should not feel embarrassed, it's not their fault nor is it only their burden to bear. This is where we, as friends, family, co-workers, etc. come into play. We need to create an atmosphere of love and support where women in these relationships can feel comfortable to tell someone and get the help they need. This starts with openly communicating your support and spreading awareness; then, when the time comes, those around you know that you are a safe person to come to, a safe person to confide in. It is important to consistently communicate that you won't judge someone due to their situation. Spreading awareness is a great way to start building that image of yourself. Spread knowledge and you may be speaking to someone who is being abused.  This can open a door for them to know you support them as a victim, as a human.

Please feel free to share your stories and comments here as this is designed to be a safe and supportive blog. I will continuously update with new and helpful links that I find as well as post information on any events going on to support the fight against domestic violence.

Please bear with me as I am new to the blog world and will try to enhance the blog as I learn. Thank you for your support and sharing the initiative to spread awareness!